Without being judgemental but with a constructive undergird. After peeking through one of the paramount factors which would throw avalanches of women to hell fire, I was thrown into a state of wild-thoughts, and it was about women’s penchant for mostly spreading calumny, owing to gossip, and an immediate factor of the staggering number of women of the world’s population. “Majority of the inhabitants of hell fire would be women”, this is the riveting tradition of Prophet Muhammad [pbuh] which stoked the weirdest contemplation!
In hindsight, would it not be fair if we should say that the very next people to blister and burn furiously in the flames of hell fire are the unfaithful Politicians and their various apparatchiks of our time? It has become tacit without further attempt to debunk the motion that lies are the beacon of Politics in some parts of the world where justice is compromised and underdevelopment is widely spread and worshipped! Falsehood is the new trend in the arena of Power seeking and Politicians are eulogized for spreading deceit, and propagandist, as a trait, is the requisite skill for playing this game of Politics. After our ancestors have cautioned us about the ramification of lies, we seem unperturbed. So we often see the Power-Seeking people diluting we the next generation to show rectitude, but looking at the magnitude of the widespread of lies now a days, we are forced to believe that the very elite are those peddling deceit by the help of Politics and, either white-collar job which we seek or the gullible nature of the black man! Recently, youthful exuberance is also highly directed to singing campaign songs, siding with all sought of nonessential dissents and roaring for the myopic cum partisan ideologies which one’s Political party may have delved into. That said, all these endeavours are to solicit for votes from the educated iliterate and obnoxious illiterate which have been sugar-coated with wanton and fabricated lies churned out by the Political gurus!
With the aforementioned tradition as the preamble, I believe in the highest esteem that the catchword ‘Politics’ would be the rope to be used in dragging most Politicians to hell because of their nonchalance for trustworthiness. The Political business is thriving as well as the number of Politicians is rapidly booming, and so ‘spreading lies’ have become unbridled! With this frenzy trait, we have proven all the nuggets of freedom and fair Politics bred by Yaa Asantewaa and other great warriors who contributed copiously in diverse ways for securing mother Ghana wrong!
Oh, our dear women, we have gone far away from the days that we have to walk and wait in a confined place to spew balderdash about other females, to gossip in this current time, is very easy; just by our phone, we do gossip, so let us be mindful so that we shall not be assorted with those whose defiances have gone beyond epidemic level. Never forget that whenever your actions are dastardly corroborating the lies which have been foretold by your mother-Political-Party, just be mindful of what you are sowing because your attitude would always determine your altitude…!
The fray has been unleashed, if you are a Politician and a faithful one, then to God be the glory. But, if you are a Power-Seeking individual and being tagged as a ‘Poli-tricktion’, be abreast that you are destined to compete with majority of women who would enter into hell fire. The choice is yours, so you decide!
Sleep, But Do Not Snore Over Your Dreams
If we are to fuel our dreams with passion and not tears or rattling noise of snorting, it will eventually drive it successfully to its intended overt destination.
So many a people have realized their potentials and are eagerly following suit. But at the sound of the whistle, they fell. They seemed confused and oft ridiculed! But being positive and forward inclined, they have firmly resuscitated and stood tall above the deadliest storm of yesterday.
Are they not those smiling herein and then without a contorted face today? They have not regretted any of the steps they took as a result of not folding their hands betwixt their thighs and being hopeful only. Just like a farmer who, when it rains, his focus goes to the bedroom rather than the farmland!
For such people, it has worked for them. It was just because they paddled their own canoe passionately while waiting for no man. They did not move together with the crowd or its direction. Ideally, nothing forced them to understood that their dream was entirely different from that of the crowd. In so doing, they neither slept over it nor slumbered reluctantly. Because, they came to fish while the rest came for other than fishing!
If the above narrative is evoking poignancy, then it should be known that it takes time for man to have that good dream he is envisaging. When you finally see yours, do not allow fear and laziness to whittle it down! It does so when you are erratic. Be mindful! Perhaps, that could be the only time you would get an inspiration directly from our Lord!
When you have a vision, nurture it with a pragmatic mission. That is the secret of most successful men we know. While we are aware of this, we have decided to cast a blind eye, due to our ‘laziness ambition’.
Do not be petrified about failure. It rather makes the toil meaningful! Get yourself in the mood, and when you dream, drive it with Passion and a kind heart. What are you waiting for? Stop the “Nyame bɛ yɛ thing” [God will do attitude], and follow your faith with hard works. Put whatsoever that had occurred to you into fruition and mould it into perfection. You would see the essence of being passionate.
Pray for a God given zeal to propel your destiny. For it is only prayer which can change bad destiny to a good one, as said by the Messengers of God.
Where You Focus Matters
Have you mistakenly forgotten that the next person that knows you best is Yourself, after our Lord? Pay no attention to people who believe not in your projections – that is only if you are on the right path! When a farmer picks his tools immediately day breaks and advances to the farmland to harvest or cultivate, his thoughts are only on how to feed his family back home and get some extra farm products to sell. Any other obstacle on his way would be surely cut off! In effect, always lower your eyes to those whose wish is to impede your aspirations.
Whenever you envisioned towing a road leading to success, be bent on that desire and eschew from doing things for peoples’ sake! The world of today is such that most men are very arrogant and ungrateful. When you are extremely kind to them they would either misconstrue your benevolence as an effort of ingratiation or term you as a man of show-off. That is why you must focus on nothing but meeting your goals aptly. Only do things to accelerate your soul on the path of righteousness and productivity.
Know your limits and where you are going and what you are towing. If it is walking that would get you there, just walk and focus on the road but not the passers-by. And if you have to run to get there, run, but do not yearn to fly over any offing trouble, you definitely need the stumbling blocks to make you resilient after reaching your peak.
In all these, be faithful to yourself. At this stage of our life we must not behave as if we are older than our age, oh, young men and women. If you are learning a trade focus on your trade. If you are schooling, focus on your books because where you focus matters! This will emancipate you from the bondage of failure in the future.
THE BIASNESS OF THE SOCIETY TOWARDS WOMEN
In most parts of the world, injustices towards women are however substantially larger than the injustices towards men. Thus overall, in a global perspective, there is no doubt that women are being treated unfairly in many situations” by Eivind Kjorstad. It always looks so strange to me as to how the world seems so bias towards women in many situations.
In doing a little analysis on issues concerning men and women, I realized women are been unfairly treated in so many ways. You could see a 76 year old man marrying a 26 year old lady and it seems normal to people but when a lady reaches the age 36 without a man in her life, she is tagged as an old lady and the young energetic men are running away from her. And this suggests that the older a man becomes, the higher the number of ladies available for him but the vice versa that the older a lady becomes the fewer the number of guys available for her, doesn’t this look unfair? The most annoying thing that always happens is when a married man is caught in bed with another woman by his wife, she is been advised by many to forgive him and move on as if she has no feelings. Conversely, when a married woman is caught in bed with another man, the husband is advised to send her packing by his family, friends or relatives. But when you want to talk about these things you will see some men defending this unfair treatment of ladies with the idea that men are polygamous in nature. And it always seems funny to me how these men will hide under polygyny to do these things. Polygamy is different from adultery and they don’t go together. To me personally, adultery is a problem and polygamy is its solution so using polygamy to justify adultery is ignorance at its best. Some men have actually misused their power as men or leaders.
A man divorces his wife today and the next day he is with another lady, six months later he is married, whiles this divorced woman is labeled a divorcee who cannot stay with a man and she is seen remaining single for many years. Is this fair or unfair? Another thing that I always find difficult to understand is, when a woman loses her husband to death and remarries after one year; you will see people complaining here and there that she remarries too early. Some even go to the extent of criticizing her of sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive. Some will also suggest she killed her husband so that she can remarry that man and this is how the society makes it look like. And finally when a man has a good car, he is seen as a marriageable man and women push their daughters to him but again, when a lady is having a good car, you see men shying away from her and she is labeled as not good for marriage because she is the “high class type”.
This is the kind of society we live in…
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